So I've been married for nearly three weeks. We had a small wedding ceremony with just our families but it was beautiful. I wore a white and lace sleeveless dress with a turquoise and white sash above my ever-expanding belly (kind of like an empire waist). Jake wore black slacks, black dress shoes, a white button-up dress shirt and a turquoise and blue tie. Our kids were dressed up and actually were able to stay that way through the entire 15-minute ceremony.